
Exhausted by chronic people-pleasing? Discover the physical cost of the fawn trauma response and how EMDR and IFS therapy can help you set boundaries without guilt.

Exhausted by chronic people-pleasing? Discover the physical cost of the fawn trauma response and how EMDR and IFS therapy can help you set boundaries without guilt.

When trust is broken in a relationship—whether through betrayal, emotional disconnection, or years of misunderstanding—it can leave both people feeling raw, guarded, and unsure how to move forward. You might...

If you are the woman everyone turns to in a crisis, you know exactly what the “Strong Woman” wound feels like. You are the rock. You are the problem-solver, the...

If you are an overthinking, deep-feeling woman navigating the heavy, invisible weight of complex trauma, you might feel like you are constantly bracing yourself for the next shoe to drop....

If you are a deep-feeling, conscientious woman, there is a good chance you are intimately familiar with a very specific, quiet kind of exhaustion. It is the exhaustion that comes...

If you are a deep-feeling, overthinking woman, you might know the exact kind of exhaustion I am talking about. It isn’t just the tiredness that comes after a long workday...
I’m Emma, a trauma therapist who works with thoughtful, feminist women and couples. I’m also an ex professor of philosophy, I do improv comedy, and I love to read and write. I am creative and warm, but for years I didn’t know how to channel those qualities and I became anxious and down on myself trying to fit into boxes that didn’t work for me.
I get the experience of pain, fear, self criticism, and disconnection from your partner, and I also know that true healing is possible.
Credentials: Emma Kobil, LPC | Colorado License #0012512 | Emma Kobil, LLC
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