
Always saying yes when you mean no? Learn what the fawn response really is, where it comes from, and how EMDR and IFS can help.

Always saying yes when you mean no? Learn what the fawn response really is, where it comes from, and how EMDR and IFS can help.

If you've spent your life being called "too sensitive," there's a name for what you are—and it's not a flaw. A therapist's guide to being a Highly Sensitive Person (HSP),...

You look like you have it all together—but inside, your mind never stops. Learn what high-functioning anxiety really is, why high achievers are so prone to it, and how EMDR...

Why can't you just say no? Discover why people-pleasing is a nervous system response, not a willpower problem, and how EMDR and IFS therapy help you set boundaries without guilt.

EMDR for overthinkers: discover how to stop intellectualizing trauma and finally achieve somatic healing with EMDR and IFS therapy.

Think you just have high-functioning anxiety? Learn how feminist therapy and online EMDR can get to the root of trauma-driven burnout and perfectionism.
I’m Emma, a trauma therapist who works with thoughtful, feminist women and couples. I’m also an ex professor of philosophy, I do improv comedy, and I love to read and write. I am creative and warm, but for years I didn’t know how to channel those qualities and I became anxious and down on myself trying to fit into boxes that didn’t work for me.
I get the experience of pain, fear, self criticism, and disconnection from your partner, and I also know that true healing is possible.
Credentials: Emma Kobil, LPC | Colorado License #0012512 | Emma Kobil, LLC
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